REASON WHY SOME MARRIED WOMEN LOOK OUTSIDE FOR S3X

LACK OF RESPONSIBILITY: Everybody knows that it is the responsibility of man to provide food and other necessity for their wife and children at home. Any husband who failed to perform his duty at home as husband can drive his wife outside. When you asked some women why they are looking outside, some of them is because lack of money to meet up with their daily need. They believe that they should use what they have to get what they want which is money. When you provide what your wife and children need to your capacity, your wife will have no reason to look outside. Though there are some women no matter how you take good care of them, with their greediness and covetous they will still look outside.

UNSATISFACTORY S3X: Some women have tasted so many men and they know their ability on bed. That is why some women/ladies will still be going after their ex if is performing more than the husband at home. The mistake some men are doing is that they have girlfriend outside and satisfy them s*exually while they keep their wives in reserve bench. If they can go five times outside they will hardly go one round with their wives. This is a story from an elderly married woman ''We were in relaxation center one day with a family member, he said he can't have s*ex with his wife like girlfriend outside and I told him you better stick with your wife and satisfy her because that is what we women want or else she will look for it outside, he said, is it true that he doesn't know and he said he will start from that day. The follow day he came to our house and said when he finished s*ex with his wife yesterday, she smile for the first time after s*ex and said, so you are good like this, why are you pretending since all this day''. All women may not like s*ex but majority of them enjoy it and they want it.

KEEPING DISTANCE WITH YOUR WIFE: It is not always advisable to stay long outside your matrimonial home. This is common to people traveling overseas, business man and contractor e.t.c. Some years ago, I work in one hotel and I know how some ladies and married women do patronize hotels with different men. When you move closer to them you will discover that, it is either they need money, their husband are not satisfy them s*exually or their husband are not around for long time.

I went to the hospital recently, hear this story from a nursing sister. '' I was in family planning section, a woman came to us and said she want to do family planning, I told my junior staff to test her to know which one will be good for her body and also to do her pregnancy test. She insisted that there is no need and I said they should leave her if she refuse the test. She started begging me and I refuse, so she later confided in me that she's pregnant. I told her she can't do the family planning now because it will terminate the pregnant and she said she knows. Why did you want to terminate the pregnant then when you know. She now said, my husband is in overseas and she is not the one responsible for the pregnancy and he will come to Nigeria next month so I don't want him to come and see the pregnancy. I later said ok let me do it for you, i gave her paracetarmol injection and told her she should not use any other drugs for the next one month. If she go to another place, is left to her. I deliberately see her off when she was going, when you see the jeep she brought and her physical look, you will know is well taking care of but the problem is that she can't hold herself''.
Above all, i did not say all ladies/women are the same, we still have some who are very decent, self discipline and have self determination.