BEDSIT GAP (enemy of intimacy)

I do not have any other idea of what i will call a situation in which husband and wife live in separate rooms. They live a private life other the same roof. Everyone holds the key to his or her room. This idea of lover's bedroom or love room, master's and mistress' bedrooms is what i call Architect's Devil. Rooms are not supposed to be separated by the couples. Ideally, couples have lost rights to privacy and secrecy, the moment they are married. There should not be partitions. Yes, Couples are not supposed to sleep together only for the purpose of s*x. They should be able to discuss together, plan together and wake each up in the night to settle any problem. During the law, it may be so, because of defilement by menstruation and permissiveness of polygamy, but that was not how God meant it in the beginning.

Mat. 19:5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh.

Mat. 19:6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put asunder.

It is an act of putting away to use different rooms or apartments. It amounts to living like tenants. Even those who agree that one should open to spouse, quoting from Micah 7:6, they still agree that spouses should use the same room and the same bed.
"...... keep the door of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom."

When Prophet Nathan went to rebuke David on scandalous relationship with Bathsheba and the death of Uriah, hear the way he describes the relationship of Uriah and his wife:

2Sam 12:3 But the poor man had nothing, save one little ewe lamb, which he had bought and nourished up: and he grew up together with him, and drank of  his own cup, and lay in his bossom, and was unto him as a daughter. How intimate do you think this couple will be?

This is one of traditional settings that homes struggle with. Sleeping together with your spouse give you alot of opportunity to build intimate relationship and happy home. Click here to read the next gap which is EMOTIONAL GAP

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